Recently, my friend and I were talking about trying to downsize our lives and how hard it is to get rid of chotskies. Inanimate objects from which we derive so much joy. From there the conversation turned to online dating and somehow ended up at cremation and dying. I’m not saying that’s a natural progression from dating to dying, I’m just making a note. The whole online dating conversation started when I casually dropped the fact that I was considering going on J Date. While